What Happened to the ‘Good Men’? (and new dating drama…a Goddess doesn’t play)

 Relationships  No Responses »
Feb 222013
 

Many women I’ve coached recently have shared their frustrations with the men they’re meeting and the dating drama.

Some of the similarities I’ve noticed include…

  • “I always attract men who aren’t ready to commit.”
  • “I meet men that seem interested yet they don’t ask me out.”
  • “When I finally meet a man who I’m attracted to I end up initiating everything or pushing him away.”
  • “I’m a magnet for unavailable men. Where are all the good ones?”

Can you relate to any of these women?

The problems seem to be getting worse and it’s our job ladies to turn this trend around, starting NOW.

If you are…

  • Exhausted from Trying to Figure Men Out…
  • Fed Up With Attracting the Wrong Men…
  • Sick of Bad Dates and Painful Breakups…
  • Tired of Being a Strong Woman, Successful in business yet lost in love…
  • Ready for Lasting Love…

Let me assure you, you’re not alone! In fact, during my upcoming tele-class 5 Keys to SPARK Your Ideal Relationship you will learn about the dramatic shift occurring between men and women and how it’s changed the way you attract a quality partner into your life. With these changing roles it’s no wonder why everyone feels lost and is unsure how to proceed. If you know what I’m talking about join me February 25th at 6:30 (EST) to get a clear roadmap to navigate your way – CLICK HERE TO REGISTER

The alpha female energy that has worked in business absolutely DOES NOT work in relationships. I see more women pursuing and taking more and more of the masculine role in dating and it’s causing more confusion and painful heartache for women. It doesn’t have to be this way. I can help.

How come I can see this so clearly? I was a master at it! As long as I can remember I’ve lead with my alpha female energy, pursing men, asking them out, you name it. I’ve been there, just like you. I dedicated my life to learning how to shift my energy to lead with my feminine, inner Goddess and in the process developed a signature system so I can help other women who are going through a similar experience and challenges in love.

I’ll give you the 5 steps to attract a healthy and successful relationship into your life by using your magnetically potent feminine power. This call could be the turning point for you to finally having the relationship of your dreams.

Imagine, what would it be like to… 

  1. Have your ideal man adore you?
  2. Have a meaningful and fulfilling relationship that lasts?
  3. Would you like a step-by-step process that will not only help you manifest an over-the-moon level relationship, but when applied can help you manifest anything your heart desires?

If you’d like any of the above this tele-class was designed for you!

Don’t wait until it’s too late! Register below and you’ll be one of the first to receive my signature system. This material is so powerful and I’m excited and ready to share with you.

This complimentary Tele-Class will cover LOTS of Goddess worthy, love-rich content, so hurry and grab your spot in my virtual love lounge and we’ll have a juicy talk very soon!

Let me help you light your Love SPARK!

February 25th, 2013 6:30 PM EST

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Are You the Master of Your Mind?

 Inspired Living  4 Responses »
Apr 062010
 

Do you have what you truly want in life or are you accepting status quo?

This may be difficult to answer, however there is great value in asking this question.

A great way to find out the answer to these questions is to look at your results. Your results reflect of the quality of the decisions and actions you have made to this point. Your results are the best way to determine if you are on the right track.

Do you have the results you want, or are they off base?

I had to take a good long look at my results and this was a significant reason why I chose to move to the East Coast. If you were to take an objective look at my life when I lived in Oregon, you would see I had stagnant results.

I was stuck.

I had developed some ineffective habits of behavior, some of which I had convinced myself were working.

Now I can see more clearly what was going on. What I really wanted, got further and further out of my reach. In fact, I was very busy and I was exhausted. My friends told me I was the busiest person they knew, yet I didn’t have the money or relationships to show for it.

In the first couple of months living in New Jersey my results were dramatically different, you would have thought I’d been here for years; establishing an amazing network of personal and professional contacts, getting a managerial position with the federal government despite so many others struggling to find work, and reestablishing  my coaching practice.

My experiences serve as an example to help you identify if you’ve become stagnant in your own life.

Do you have the results you want?

Take a look at your success in the following areas:

  • Romantic Relationships
  • Business Relationships
  • Finances
  • Friendships
  • Career

Do you find yourself constantly struggling to do everything and to get it all? If so, is it paying off? Are you able to enjoy what you have worked so hard for?

If it’s not paying off, ask yourself why.

If it doesn’t make sense to you, have you ever wondered why it feels like everything has to be so hard or so much work? If you consistently have unsatisfying results, what you’ve been doing isn’t working effectively.

Consider the following questions…

  • Do you find yourself over-thinking a lot?
  • Are you constantly analyzing and trying to figure things out?
  • Are your desired results always just out of your reach?

These are signs that you’re stuck in your head.

Your mind is a tool you can use to translate your vision into goals and action steps.

If you find yourself feeling like you are working constantly, moving faster, doing more and more, and you feel like your head is spinning…you mind has become your master. Your mind houses your ego, your inner critic, that part of yourself that will drive you like a slave.

How would you like to take control back and become the master of your mind?

Ask yourself…

  • What would it be like if you could go through your day, focused and taking inspired action, allowing you to be done with your work in one-half or one-third the time?
  • What if you could change just a few ways of how you interact with someone you care about and have your relationship completely turn around and bring back those amazing feelings you once experienced?
  • What would it be worth to have success follow you, giving you the enjoyment and love for what you do?

These things will not come effortlessly or quickly.

Think about how long it took you to get where you are in present time and develop your current habits?

The good news is that it doesn’t have to take that long to see improvement. In fact, most of my clients see or feel a noticeable change by their third session.

Most people struggle with change.  There is a tendency to resist change because the outcome cannot be predicted. This causes many to cling to the familiar to avoid the fear of the unknown. When you resist change it makes it more difficult and painful.

By choosing to continue along the same path, despite recognizing it’s no longer working will bring about more suffering. If you can see this as a pattern for you, can you recall a time when you made a change and there was a positive result waiting for you on the other side?

When you are able to let go of the old ways of doing something, amazing and positive results will follow.

Is there something you know you need to change, but up until this point you haven’t been ready, willing, or able to?

When might be the right time?

If you’re ready and don’t want to do it alone, let me know how I can help!

xoxo

Angela, The Goddess Next Door

Are You Taking Yourself for Granted?

 Inspired Living, Self Care & Life Balance  5 Responses »
Feb 202010
 

“Are you taking yourself for granted?”

That may seem like an odd question, but I’d like you to ponder it for a moment.

Do you find yourself feeling indifferent towards your personal and professional accomplishments?

Do you think that others’ accomplishments are impressive, while assuming yours aren’t anything out of the ordinary and not exceptional?

This is very common. One of my coaching clients had a great session a few weeks ago when she came to the realization that she has always taken herself for granted.

Most of her life, she’s had a Type-A personality; independent, goal-oriented and highly driven; she always looked for something to strive for. Once she had achieved a goal, her focus shifted immediately to the next, bigger and better project.

During our coaching session it struck her. She realized that she’s never valued the accomplishments she’s had up to that point in her life.

It was as if she thought of her accomplishments as small tasks on her “to do list” that she had checked off one day. She didn’t feel successful or that her accomplishments were really that important. Through coaching, she was able to realize she had the tendency to compare herself to what others were doing, and she never felt like what she did was good enough.

 

Together we identified how this feeling of not being good enough was being reflected in her career. Always having the entrepreneurial spirit, she tried her hand at various businesses: professional caterer, franchise owner, therapist, and direct sales consultant. Taking herself and her accomplishments for granted severely impeded her marketing and business building abilities. With each business she was able to achieve a certain level of success but ultimately sabotaged and limited herself beyond that. Self imposing as it was, it showed up over and over because she depreciated her own self-worth.

After coaching her through the TransCovery process – developed by Dale Halaway of Seminars that Inspire, I had her begin listing all of her personal and professional successes up to that point. She was very surprised by what she saw. Not only the number of accomplishments she was able to identify, but also the significance of each success surprised her. Taking a step back and thinking about her list more objectively she found herself really impressed.

At that point she realized how much she had taken for granted the time, energy and work she put forth to achieve the small and the large successes that made up her life. She was able to recognize the significance of those triumphs and challenges.

Only once you are able to recognize your own value and appreciate what you have to offer can others do the same. Until then, you will attract people and create circumstances that will reinforce the lowered value you’ve placed on yourself.

You may begin noticing:

  • You accept from others less than you truly deserve.
  • You limit yourself in building a successful business.
  • You over-work yourself.
  • You under charge for your products or services or give too much of your work away.
  • You do not show yourself appreciation through positive self-care by taking care of your physical, emotional, mental, and social needs.

I invite you to take a few minutes for some self recognition and start your own list of accomplishments and successes, both large and small. It may be a bit challenging at first, although once you get on a roll, just like my client, you may be pleasantly surprised by all that you are and all that you’ve done.

If you find this exercise to be helpful, consider creating a Success Journal. A Success Journal is a place to write about or simply note anytime you have a personal success. We sometimes habitually slip into taking ourselves for granted. A success journal can help remind us of the positive things we have accomplished and what we have to be grateful for. It’s a wonderful reminder of the value we bring to both our personal and professional lives.

Have you been taking yourself for granted? How has your life been affected? Leave a comment and share your story!

xoxo

Angela, The Goddess Next Door

PS. If this article resonated with you, consider Transformational Life Coaching. You could see life changing results (increased income, better relationships, more confidence and greater overall happiness) once you stop taking yourself for granted.

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