Did you know there are unseen forces at work in both who you attract and who you are attracted to? You know that feeling you get when you meet someone, you instantaneously get a sense about them – either positive or negative.
One of the keys to finding love is noticing what you focus your attention on and the energy you radiate out into the Universe.
In today’s video I talk about dramatically improving your love life by focusing on what you want, rather than focusing on what you don’t.
Your attraction factor works like a magnetic force, drawing to you whatever you focus your attention and energy on. If you were to break your physical body down into the tiniest particle you would find you’re made of energy. With energy, like attracts like.
Think about your most recent relationship. In the beginning you were focused on how wonderful your partner was and how amazing you felt, while not pay too much attention to anything else. Later on when the blissful feelings wore off, you probably began to notice things you didn’t like…he’s showing up late, she takes forever to get ready, he’s not as attentive as he use to be…I’m sure you have your own list….am I right?
By focusing on the negative, the energy you put out is no longer unconditional and the support and acceptance you once had starts to wear thin. Increasingly everything you don’t like about your partner gets amplified and magically shows up even more. You can probably see how destructive this pattern can be to a relationship.
Here’s a quick way to tell what you’ve been focusing on. Look at your results. What are you seeing?
Your results will show you where you’ve been focusing and placing your attention in the past days, weeks, months, even years.
Let me ask you, have you been focusing on why you’re still single? For example do you believe there aren’t any good men out there? Or that they can’t be trusted? Or what your partner didn’t do for you that they should have?…
Or have you been focusing on all of the amazing opportunities to meet other singles and the excitement of finding your ideal partner?
If you haven’t noticed this already, you will find whatever you look for. When we get focused and look for something – positive or negative we filter everything else out. So if you’re not already, it may be a great time to focus on what you want in love. Just that shift in focus can dramatically change your love luck!
What has your experience been? I’d love to hear your comments so please share them below the video.
PS – Do you know anyone who could benefit from this video? Please share it with them and help them have better love luck too!
Wonderful advice…what you focus on is what you will only see….No wonder the negative people only see the world as an ugly place!! They have blinders on to miss the beautiful things surrounding all of us.
So true…the more I learn about the Law of Attraction the more I see how true what you say is. I am now noticing those people around me that are always negative seem to always get more negative results. Although they don’t connect it to themselves and don’t see it the bad things continue to happen. This has been helpful for me to work on staying in the positive:-) Makes life so much more joyful.
How true this is. I had to split with my ex because he was always so down in the dumps. Try as I might to infuse him with positive energy, nothing worked. After two years, I had to end the marriage.
I still love him but it’s really hard to live with him. I keep my distance because he hasn’t quite forgiven me. I hope someday he will.
In this economy, it seems tougher than ever to connect with happy people. Maybe you could give us some tips on that, Angela.