You’ve likely experienced this before. You’ve dated a guy who you really like. He seems to really be into you too. He says he’ll call and he doesn’t…Or you’ve been dating a man for a while and you talk about moving in together yet he doesn’t take steps to make that a reality.
Sometimes we want something so badly we believe everything we’re told without looking at what they are doing. Are they saying one thing and doing another? Their actions show you their level of comittment to what they are saying. Are they telling you what you want to hear to maintain a relationship with you? Or do their actions show you they mean what they say? Do they follow through and are they reliable? Or do they consistently say they are going to do something and it never happens?
Next time, don’t believe something just because you really want it to be true, watch for the follow through.