The name says it all! Those of you who have known me for five or more years know that I’m an expert in pleasure products. Those of you who don’t, I use to coach women on increasing their sexual well-being through the use of various sensual items…more commonly called vibrators.

When I was asked to review the Intensity by JOPEN my curiosity got peaked by it’s innovative design and I had to say ‘YES’!

The Intensity is the first adult pleasure “object” created from a medical device. A team of medical professionals created an apparatus to strengthen women’s pelvic floor muscles and that’s how it all began.

Everyday women like you and me took part in the initial testing and reported having intense orgasms when using the device. Scientific research indicates the pelvic floor muscles are partly responsible for the involuntary contractions which occur during an orgasm. That’s why it’s very important to tighten and tone by doing your Kegels ladies…more intense and frequent orgasms!

With the added vibration on the shaft in the form of a G-Spot stimulator and a vibrating stimulator placed on the base for external use, the Intensity had the ability to hit virtually every erotic area of a woman’s body simultaneously! Not only now do women have a product that can strengthen the pelvic floor muscles essential to their sexual health, this wonder tool has the potential to create powerful orgasms (…and might I add, increase a man’s pleasure too).

Here’s a fantastic video explaining the benefits of using the Intensity by JOPEN…

In case you missed it here are its amazing stats:

• The powerful dual vibrating motors have five speeds of intense vibration and 10 Incremental Levels of Electro Stimulation targeting the internal and external erogenous zones.
• The dual stimulating contacts enhance pelvic contractions – yes indeed!!
• It’s made with premium grade Silicone, which is non-porous, very soft and durable – my material of choice.
• It has an inflatable shaft which allows you to personalize size and fit
• This is an automatic Kegel exerciser to strengthen and tone muscles – making a woman seem tighter and more youthful…and smile more don’t you think?
• 100% Manufactured in the USA!!

In my opinion, every woman needs one…even if only for greater health, right ladies? To get your own Intensity email me by clicking HERE and I will get you hooked up (discretely of course!)

Here’s to much health and even greater pleasure,

xoxo

Angela, The Goddess Next Door

If you’ve struggled sorting through all of the conflicting relationship advice out there you will appreciate the book ATTACHED. The New Science of Adult Attachment and How it Can Help You Find – and Keep – Love. In this book psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Amir Levine and social organizational psychologist Rachel Heller offer answers to why we crave long-term bonds and never truly give up on finding a meaningful connection as well as answers to those earlier questions.

Levine and Heller illustrate in ATTACHED, how our biology and our “attachment style” have an enormous impact on how and why we form the relationships we do. We all have an attachment style (i.e., a particular way of behaving in relationships) that falls into one of three categories: Secure, Anxious or Avoidant.

Some of the eye-opening conclusions Levine and Heller outline include:

• Having someone with whom to share our lives is “part of our genetic makeup and has nothing to do with how much we love ourselves or how fulfilled we feel on our own.” We are hard-wired to be dependent. (I wish I knew this in my last relationship!)
• “Secure” attachment is essential not just for our emotional well-being but for our physical well-being.
• Playing hard to get is the easiest way to land Mr. Wrong (i.e., Mr. Avoidant)

When I began reading ATTACHED, I was thinking to myself, this is just a book talking about typical relationship behaviors gone awry. That everyone goes through the various stages of secure, anxious or avoidant within their relationships depending upon how much they are interested and invested in their partner.

As I continued reading and got to the deeper levels of the concept I was drawn in. I could see my own attachment style being revealed. It was fascinating to answer the questionnaires which shed light on not only my own attachment style but the attachment style of my most recent partner.

I would recommend checking out this book. Levine and Heller not only provide many great clarifying examples, they give you many coping skills to deal with your current style and bridge the gap between your attachment style and your partners…and if you’re single, you will learn exactly what to look for to find yourself a secure man. This could potentially save you a lot of heartache!

If you’d like to check this book out and gain insight into your relationships, past and current here is a handy link Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find and Keep Love.

Enjoy!

xoxo

Angela, The Goddess Next Door