Tied Up & Blindfolded

Tied Up & Blindfolded

Q. My boyfriend wants to tie me up and blindfold me but isn’t that kinky? ~Jen B. A. Sure some consider this to be kinky, but what’s wrong with kinky?  My theory is if you enjoy it and no one is being forced into anything they don’t want to do, then go for it.  There are a lot of things that people consider kinky until they try them and realize it was more the fear of the unknown.  If you do some research, you’ll learn that being tied up and blindfolded by your partner is mild on the BDSM continuum.  Read more…

Here We Go Dating Again…

Have you considered reentering the dating scene but the thought brings up all sorts of concerns? Here I address some of the more common questions I get from my coaching clients… Q. What advice do you give newly single people about first dates (i.e., where to go, what to do, how much to say about previous relationships, how much personal information to share, etc.)? A. Going somewhere public where you can easily leave is best for a first date. If you know rather quickly you want to end the date you can easily make a transition out and you aren’t Read more…

Hooking up With an Ex?

Still hooking up with your ex? Have you been wondering if you should break it off or try to make it work again? I’ll just keep this short and sweet! I highly advise against hooking back up with your ex. You obviously made the decision at one point to end the relationship and chances are absolutely nothing has changed. The only thing you will find with an ex is drama.  It’s important to be clear about your boundaries with your previous partners, especially sexually. If you aren’t ready to let go of them, you can sure bet you aren’t ready Read more…

Plan an Elegant Bachelorette Event to Remember

Q:  My friend is getting married and I am in charge of throwing her Bachelorette party. I don’t want to throw her the usual tacky party and I wonder if you have any tips on planning an elegant party? A: I believe there is a goddess in every woman that should be celebrated – especially during the turning points of her life. When your dear friend is about to be wed, consider a Bachelorette celebration that honors her last moments of single life and empowers her as she enters her marriage. Create a party that will refresh her and help Read more…