As the weeks go by the drama unfolds…on the Bachelor that is. It happens every season.
There’s the girl who becomes an emotional wreck and downright needy. It’s easy to recognize when you aren’t involved. As an outside observer we see the unhealthy patterns, but when it’s your situation it’s almost impossible to see.
At one point or another haven’t we all been “that girl?” I know I have!
We all want to experience true love with a man who adores us. Sometimes we want it so badly that we ignore red flags. We don’t want to believe that it’s not going to work. Sometimes the relationship is destined for disaster and we just can’t or won’t see it.
Wrapped up in romanticized feelings towards a guy I’d fall head-over-heels in love with his potential, the fantasy of what I wanted him to be, instead of who he really was. The men I attracted weren’t quality men. I’d fall in love so quickly, I wouldn’t have the chance to learn that before my emotions were involved.
Once I became aware of the deeper beliefs driving my relationships and began changing the beliefs I had about men and love I started attracting higher caliber men. It’s a natural process that happens by resolving old emotional wounds because anything we don’t resolve from past relationships reinforces our beliefs and relationship patterns, negatively affecting all future relationships.
If any of this resonates with you and you feel you have unresolved stuff from the past you’d like help with I’ll be launching an online program called Love Rehab in the next several weeks. If you prefer to work with me one-on-one, check out my Love Intensive Coaching.
PS – You can see first hand what it’s like coaching with me. Watch what Christine & Martin say.