About a month ago my friend Jessica went on a couple of dates with a great guy.
She thought he was cute, charming really and she excitedly told me they had great chemistry, they joked, asked each other tons of questions – and not just the usual superficial get to know you questions, they actually talked about “deeper” stuff.
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I could see it in her eyes. She lit up when she talked about him.
She even told me she thought he could be “the ONE!”
To give you a little backstory, it had been a while since Jessica had met a decent guy.
She usually finds herself on dates with guys who are just looking to get lucky.
Thinking she might find the same with this guy she went in with very little expectation.
Then I could hear it in her voice…
She developed feelings for this guy and she got tunnel vision.
It became ALL about this guy. It was as if he was the last guy on the planet and she was worried another woman would steal him away right from under her.
She got excited about the idea of him possibly being “the One” that she became attached to the outcome. She got so focused that it had to be THIS guy, my cool, calm and collected girlfriend instantly turned into drama chick! (I’ve since helped her work through this so she’s okay with me sharing this with you.)
I could see it.
The moment she started feeling insecure and completely out of control.
She was afraid.
Can you relate?
I can, I totally use to be this way.
This is usually about the same time when the guy doesn’t call. You get anxious, you worry and start to overthink everything you said and did.
It’s not so much what you did, what you said, or even how you looked, it’s the energy you start putting towards this guy.
Because energy is not contained by time or space.
It flows to where your focus is. If you feel fear, frustration, or anxiety every time you think of a guy he can pick up on those feelings.
This also works with expectation.
You want him to call or text more, if you want more from the relationship but you don’t ask directly you hold the energy of expectation. There’s a lot of power behind that energy.
On his end, the guy feels tremendous pressure but he won’t necessarily know why. This is often why men get turned off by a woman.
If he thinks you’re trying to get something from him – for him to call, to go out on a date, to get engaged, to get married – he will run the other way.
A man wants to make a woman happy
He wants to provide for you, but as soon as it becomes an expectation he no longer feels he can satisfy you and he’ll disengage from the relationship.
This means he’ll stop calling, he’ll stop asking you out, he’ll disappear.
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