Think you’re in control of your love life? Think again!
Did you know your deepest, inner most beliefs are in control over your love life? Yes, really it’s true!
As children we are little sponges, absorbing the ideas and beliefs of our parents and those we spend our time with. As we grow up we begin seeing the world through those beliefs and we attract people that reinforce our beliefs whether or not those beliefs are true. Not to mention, many of our beliefs limit us in one way or another.
Watch the video to learn how your limiting beliefs keep you from having greater love in your life.
What does this have to do with your love life?
If you learned men aren’t trustworthy or are only looking to hook up, you’ll interact with them differently then if you believe they’re looking to find an amazing woman whom they have chemistry and have fun with. With the first set of beliefs you’ll approach love with your guard up and men will feel that. However, if you are more receptive and trusting of men, you’ll be more open to getting to know a guy better when he comes along.
By having a negatively skewed belief you’ll find yourself attracting more jerks or emotionally unavailable men rather than if you believed men are generally good. If you have a pattern of attracting the same type of guy consider if this could be why? Is there a part of you that believes that’s what you deserve? I can tell you from experience, this is a common belief among women today, and this determines who you attract and partner up with.
Often we are unaware of our beliefs because we’ve had them so long.
You can change your beliefs, although it’s a process of actively identifying those old beliefs and then transforming them into more positive beliefs that will help you get what you want in life and love.
You deserve the relationship you desire and if you’re ready to take the next step, join me for the next Love SPARK program starting August 15th.
Your Love Attraction Coach