The Goddess Next Door

Jul 232014
 

Think you’re in control of your love life? Think again!

Did you know your deepest, inner most beliefs are in control over your love life? Yes, really it’s true!

As children we are little sponges, absorbing the ideas and beliefs of our parents and those we spend our time with. As we grow up we begin seeing the world through those beliefs and we attract people that reinforce our beliefs whether or not those beliefs are true. Not to mention, many of our beliefs limit us in one way or another.

Watch the video to learn how your limiting beliefs keep you from having greater love in your life.

What does this have to do with your love life?

If you learned men aren’t trustworthy or are only looking to hook up, you’ll interact with them differently then if you believe they’re looking to find an amazing woman whom they have chemistry and have fun with. With the first set of beliefs you’ll approach love with your guard up and men will feel that. However, if you are more receptive and trusting of men, you’ll be more open to getting to know a guy better when he comes along.

By having a negatively skewed belief you’ll find yourself attracting more jerks or emotionally unavailable men rather than if you believed men are generally good. If you have a pattern of attracting the same type of guy consider if this could be why? Is there a part of you that believes that’s what you deserve? I can tell you from experience, this is a common belief among women today, and this determines who you attract and partner up with.

Often we are unaware of our beliefs because we’ve had them so long.

You can change your beliefs, although it’s a process of actively identifying those old beliefs and then transforming them into more positive beliefs that will help you get what you want in life and love.

You deserve the relationship you desire and if you’re ready to take the next step, join me for the next Love SPARK program starting August 15th.

Angela Wilkinson

Your Love Attraction Coach

Jul 092014
 

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Life is what we make of it.

The world is full of opportunities waiting for us to grab ahold of.

In love…

In work…

In life…

The only thing stopping us is ourselves.

I come up against my fears or limitations often and in that moment I have to decide which choice I make.

Do I make the easier choice because I’m use to doing it that way, because it’s comfortable to do?

OR

Do I make the choice that feels a bit uncomfortable or a stretch for me? The choice that’ll move me closer to what I want.

It has become easier over time, but before I started doing interviews for radio and podcasts I was afraid to take the leap. Now, I’m looking to do them as often as I can because once I got past my fear I realized I really enjoyed doing them.

Everyday, I help people make those choices, helping them transform from holding themselves back to achieving big dreams.

Whether you believe it or not, we are limitless in what we can do and without support it’s easy to slip back into old habits and do the things that feel safe. Think about the last time you tried sticking to a diet all by yourself. How long did it last?

That’s why I’m so passionate about what I do.

I intuitively know what’s possible for you.

I can see it.

I can feel it, as if it’s already happening…

You finally meet the guy you’ve been hoping to find. A man you connect with on all levels, who adores you. You finally have that relationship you’ve been waiting years for.

You reignite the passion in your wilting marriage. Things may have gotten stale in the past but now you and your partner both feel a deeper more intimate love than ever before – not to mention the sex is as hot as it was when you first got together.

You get a promotion because everything is right in your world and you exude so much positivity and confidence your boss can’t wait to give you a raise.

Usually we dream too small for ourselves and I get to help people dream bigger.

I’d love to hold your vision and help support you in making the choices to take your life to the next level.

Here’s to your dreams!

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Angela Wilkinson

Your Love Mentor

PS - Speaking of…next week I’ll be interviewed for Experts Love Academy, a 3-day virtual event of 12 experts, myself included, talking about all aspects of love. Stay tuned for more details to come!

Jun 042014
 

One day while I was meditating I had a vivid image of me show up, dressed in a pencil skirt and suit jacket, very polished and a bit stiff.

If you’ve ever met me, you know this is SO not me.

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In that moment it hit me like a bolt of lightning.

It was like someone pulled back the curtains and I could see clear as day why my professional life seemed like a struggle.

I realized I’d been trying to fit this ideal image of who I thought I was suppose to be.

For years I tried to fulfill this “professional” role and image of a therapist. 

A part of me deep down inside thought I needed to talk, act or look a certain way to be successful. I didn’t think people wouldn’t take me seriously if I was being my fun-loving, bubbly self.

I wasn’t being fake and at the time I thought I was being completely real and transparent.

The problem is people could tell I wasn’t being authentic. Even people that didn’t know me could tell. Not that they knew I wasn’t being myself, they could just feel it.

To them they could feel a barrier between us. They could feel something was off.

See, people feel inconsistencies in your energyIf there’s a gap between your genuine self and who you’re trying to be they’ll pick up on it.

This is also true for love attraction.

If you’re trying to be your “perfect self” or the woman you think a man will be attracted to you don’t show and radiate your authentic self.

You don’t give them the chance to fall in love with the real you.

Instead the men you attract will be attracted to the person you’re trying to be and the relationship won’t last.

Have you experienced something like this before in love or another area of your life? Share it in the comments below. I’d love to hear from you.

and PS…I love you just as you are,

Angela

Your Love Attraction Coach

May 222014
 

About a month ago my friend Jessica went on a couple of dates with a great guy.

She thought he was cute, charming really and she excitedly told me they had great chemistry, they joked, asked each other tons of questions – and not just the usual superficial get to know you questions, they actually talked about “deeper” stuff.

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I could see it in her eyes. She lit up when she talked about him.

She even told me she thought he could be “the ONE!

To give you a little backstory, it had been a while since Jessica had met a decent guy.

She usually finds herself on dates with guys who are just looking to get lucky.

Thinking she might find the same with this guy she went in with very little expectation.

Then I could hear it in her voice…

She developed feelings for this guy and she got tunnel vision.

It became ALL about this guy. It was as if he was the last guy on the planet and she was worried another woman would steal him away right from under her.

She got excited about the idea of him possibly being “the One” that she became attached to the outcome. She got so focused that it had to be THIS guy, my cool, calm and collected girlfriend instantly turned into drama chick! (I’ve since helped her work through this so she’s okay with me sharing this with you.)

I could see it.

The moment she started feeling insecure and completely out of control. 

She was afraid.

Can you relate?

I can, I totally use to be this way.

This is usually about the same time when the guy doesn’t call. You get anxious, you worry and start to overthink everything you said and did.

It’s not so much what you did, what you said, or even how you looked, it’s the energy you start putting towards this guy.

Because energy is not contained by time or space.

It flows to where your focus is. If you feel fear, frustration, or anxiety every time you think of a guy he can pick up on those feelings.

This also works with expectation.

You want him to call or text more, if you want more from the relationship but you don’t ask directly you hold the energy of expectation. There’s a lot of power behind that energy.

On his end, the guy feels tremendous pressure but he won’t necessarily know why. This is often why men get turned off by a woman.

If he thinks you’re trying to get something from him – for him to call, to go out on a date, to get engaged, to get married – he will run the other way.

A man wants to make a woman happy

He wants to provide for you, but as soon as it becomes an expectation he no longer feels he can satisfy you and he’ll disengage from the relationship.

This means he’ll stop calling, he’ll stop asking you out, he’ll disappear.

The ability to find the right man and trust he’ll provide to you what you need is a skill I teach in the Love SPARK program.

If you want my help to learn how to truly allow a man into your life register now for my upcoming Love SPARK program.

I’m excited to help you find love.

Join me for the Love SPARK Program. A 5-week multimedia online course into the powerful art of manifestation and love mindset transformation. It’s designed to help you release old patterns and form new ones that make you attractive to love.

The program starts Friday, August 15th

Ready to join me? Click this link to register: http://lovesparked.com

Register early and get these fantastic bonuses!

  • Bonus #1: A 30-minute private coaching session with me ($175 value)
  • Bonus #2: Love Intention Kit ($30 value) ONLY 4 left!
  • Bonus #3: Meet Your Mate Meditation – mp3 audio a powerful meditation to connect with your future man. ($20 value)
  • Bonus #4: Chakra Grounding exercise – mp3 audio to powerfully align and ground your energy to fully integrate what you’re learning. (valued at $20)
  • Bonus #5: Daily Love Mantras – Elevate your love attraction frequency with these daily mantras to magnetically attract your man (valued at $15)

You’ll also get:

  • Lifetime access to the 5-week Love SPARK program
  • Weekly group Q&A coaching calls
  • Access to our private Love SPARK community
  • Beautiful exercise & journal pages to implement everything you learn

Ready to register & grab your bonuses? Click this link to register now: http://lovesparked.com

I wish you all the love you deserve.

XO,
Angela
Your Love Attraction Coach

http://LoveAttractionCoach.com